The society expects someone in their late 20's to start building their own family. Make proposals, get married and have children. But it doesn't always work that way. There will be some who will focus more on career while others, merely on their self growth. My best girls and I since gradeschool are currently at that phase, whereas we are already making our own choices. Choosing our own paths. Hoping we are doing the right thing. #adulting
On this blog post, one of my best girls have finally made her own decision and followed her heart. I can't help but get all teary eyed while typing this. Truth is, it's one of the most beautiful thing I've witnessed in a long time.
Kristine has been a good friend of mine since we were in elementary wherein our world revolve around our small community in Canlubang Laguna. I remember her as timid and shy back then. We used to even have the same taste in music and arts. Until we ended up in the same group of friends as we get older. She has always been the most neutral person I know. If I pick up a fight with anyone. She'd be all calm and chill. BUT. She's one of those few friends who wouldn't bat an eyelash to make sure she makes her point. More so, with her hormones nowadays. :)
Few years ago, we heard the news that she was rushed to the hospital and one of her ovaries need to be removed. It was heartbreaking. Especially for her and her family. Her chances of getting pregnant are almost slim to none. Imagine having to undergo such circumstance at a young age. She even had to go through a painful breakup afterwards. Nevertheless, she maintained her composure. That's how neutral she is. You won't even notice it, not even during her own pain.
God never fails to surprise those who follows him. With perfect timing and fate. Tine met Jeff. He was shy at first upon being introduced to us. But you get to see it right upfront that he really is a nice guy. He's an answered prayer to Tine. Finally there was a reason why it never worked out with anyone else. Jeff was that one person who will wholeheartedly accept Tine with all her flaws and imperfections yet will continue to see how beautiful and loving she is despite of it all.
(Photo courtesy of MT DIGITAL FILMS)
September 8 2017. One of my girls walked down the aisle, bids her goodbye to singlehood and embraced married life with open arms. On that day, she was the brightest. The most beautiful of them all.
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They are just perfect for each other. These prenup photos can attest to that! Photos from the wedding ceremony and the reception are posted below.
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With Dana as her maid of honor. (Hi betch!)
Karissa and I talking about "Gerrrl, so who's next na?" I'd be like, "Pusta ko si Bea na gerrrlll." :)
(L-R) Bea, Dana, Kero, Tine & Jeff, Karissa and Me!
Circa 1999 yo.
Bridesmaids, groomsmen, and the entourage.
Bridesmaids, groomsmen, and the entourage.
The groom and the bride's family.
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More photos from the wedding/reception.
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Thanks to my Plus One who patiently waited and witnessed how my friends and I can be quite a handful despite the infinity dresses. HAHA.
#frombackpackstobouquets
"Bes. Do you feel any pressure right now? Labyu. Eheh"
"Bes. Do you feel any pressure right now? Labyu. Eheh"
The girls and I decided to give this as a wedding gift to the newly weds. Credits to Roei for this lovely 4 layered red velvet cake!
Bea, Dana and I also want to thank Razie for making us look picture ready all through out the day! For bookings you may click on the link. Yes darlings, you're welcome.
It was a pleasure to be one of your bridesmaids "Jerk" (we thought it was cool kasi back in Grade 5 to call each other names, so there. Haha) I and the rest of the girls will always be here for you. I know it may sound cheesy but we'll always have each other's back. Our group may not have the same vows now like you and Jeff does, but our friendship will continue to grow until all we ever want to do is play Bingo or Mahjong on a sunny day with our grandchildren running around. From this chapter onwards.
You are definitely a living proof that miracles do exist. We cannot wait to finally meet Siemsiem! It is indeed God's perfect timing and blessing. So please do not let any negativity get into you. I know for sure that you will be a great mother to your child and a wife to your husband regardless of what other people may think.
And to you Jeff, I'm sure you'll be equally great as a husband and a father. When things start to get tough, think of how many obstacles you both have been through to get to where you are right now. Tine's mood might get you sometimes, just keep in mind that it might just be the hormones that's talking. ;)
As a friend, I can only hope for better days. The best ones are yet to come.You deserve all of these happiness, Tine. Never doubt Him as he really do works in mysterious ways. It will never be easy, but you guys both have each other now. Let me leave this one right here;
Corinthians 13:4-8
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
-A
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(Photo credits to MT DIGITAL FILMS for the prenup shoot, church wedding,reception photos and others.)
